Regular ♡ vs high vibration ♡

The more you heal, the more you realize that being “crazy in love” isn’t love at all—it’s chaos dressed up as passion. It’s romanticized dysfunction. And it’s exhausting.

As you grow, as you unpack your triggers and gently gather your broken pieces, you begin to crave something different. Something softer. Something quieter. You no longer ache for the rollercoaster—you long for steady ground. You want a love that brings peace to your soul, not panic to your chest.

You want a partner who understands that emotional instability isn’t intensity. Someone who doesn’t push you to the edge just to pull you back and call it love. You want calm conversations, mutual respect, deep understanding—a connection that feels like coming home, not surviving a warzone.

You want someone who doesn’t make your stomach twist with anxiety every time they go silent. Someone whose love isn’t a guessing game. Someone who doesn’t force you to be hyper-vigilant, always bracing for the next storm, the next disappointment.

Healing shifts your perspective like that. It teaches you to love yourself enough to stop settling for love that puts your nervous system on high alert. You stop calling inconsistency “passion” and start recognizing that real love should never make you feel unsafe.

Give me calm. Give me soft hands and gentle eyes. Give me clear communication and consistent effort. Give me the kind of love that feels like exhaling after holding my breath for too long.

Because “crazy in love” may look good in the movies—but in real life, it leaves you drained, lost, and doubting your own worth.

Give me safe in love. Give me seen in love. Give me soft in love.

That’s what healing teaches you. And that’s the kind of love you grow to wait for—and truly deserve.